Choosing The Right Life Coach By Knowing The Personalities

By Bernadette Martin


We are born unique. You and I are different from each other. Even twins have their own differences. All of us have various experiences. We may have the same general situations, but it is still unique in every way. All of us also are born with different personalities.

Many times in news we hear that there are people who commit suicide. Rich or poor they are all the same. Sometimes, the kind of personality you have can affect how you perceive life. So, in choosing the right life coach it is important that you are comfortable with the kind of attributes your coach has.

If you are one of those people who wanted to ask for any licensed expert for advice, this is for you. All the licensed life coaches are good. However, you must also reconsider that you need to be comfortable and compatible with them. In order for you to distinguish the kind of personality your compatible coach must have, here is a quick overview of the basic personalities.

Our personalities are defined by many prominent people. We know some of them. David, one of the authors of the bible, had stated some types of people in the bible. Also, Hippocrates, a philosopher, discussed in details all the things that each personality the way they think. Most of these are innate. But it does not stereotype anyone by a certain type because we are all born with unique temperament blends. Here are the four basic types.

Incorporate yourself with the gifted Melancholy. It is the melancholic, the intelligent ones, who are the one who wants to do it the right way. They will always follow rules. They are also sensitive to oneself and of others. They are detailed oriented and organized. They are often serious and melodramatic. But they are known to be pessimistic.

Exchange intelligent ideas with the serious Melancholy. Melancholic people are very deep They tend to be very serious. They are organized. They love details. They usually act mature for their age. They are extremely gifted and intelligent. Its down part, they are often pessimists. They can see all the possible negative things that could happen which can help prepare for those instances.

Be motivated with the productive Choleric. They are born leaders. They love to lead people. They are very productive. They are daring and frank. They love to see the results in all of their goals. Its negative traits are their aggressiveness, overly workaholic routine and domineering attitude.

Be empathized with a diplomatic Phlegmatic. They are meek and nice. They are usually silent but are friendly. This is the exact opposite of the Choleric. They are good listeners. They are also good at administration. They avoid any form of strife or conflict. But they can sometimes be sluggish and reluctant.

Now that you are informed about the basics, it is time to put it into action. Try to identify those from people around you. All of us have different kinds of temperament. We have both dominant and secondary personalities. Your dominant can easily be identified with the way you express. Whereas your secondary type will be identified with your responses. In order for you to tell the type other people have, observe them closely. You can discover many more other distinguishable traits from these personalities. This is an easy way to tell those people around you and it will be easier for you to understand why they act the way the do.




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